Sundowners Syndrome
Have you heard of the Sundowners Syndrome?

Do you have an older loved one that becomes very fearful as the sun goes down?
Do they hallucinate or hear things that aren’t so? Do you see mood changes, crying, depression and stubbornness?
This could be Sundowners Syndrome.
Mom becomes terrified at the thought of me leaving the house in the early evening when it is becoming nightfall.
This is illogical and irrational, but not to them. Sundowning behaviors is very hard to control.
They usually become very confused and paranoid, nothing, I mean nothing you can say will convince them that what they see or hear is not so.
So don’t waste your time trying to convince them!
It can become a very emotional time for us caregivers.
When I think about having to take over for mom, it becomes very hard for me.

She gets very upset and it makes me feel as though I am taking her independence away, which in a way I am.
From doing a lot of research and talking to others, it would be a better choice to have someone other than the caregiver come in and talk to our loved one like another outside family member, the doctor, a friend or the nursing agency. The nurse is in to see mom now.
It will have more effect and get better results because they will be able to come across as more objective than we can.
There are times when I feel all alone in this situation but the more I research this I obviously have much more company than I thought.
About 2 years ago I noticed I wasn’t feeling well and when I finally decided to go to the doctor, they found I had high blood pressure, the constant worry and stress I guess of wanting and trying to do the right thing for all.
The caregiver can be as affected by sundowners syndrome and the dementia disease as they
are.
Sundowners Syndrome
Nightfall can bring on many different issues. We don’t realize what is happening, but we stand by and watch it, sometimes not realizing there is little we can do to stop it when night comes.
It is hard to do but WE have to be careful with our self if we are to survive this part of our lives.
NOW…we must keep a better eye on “our” health and that is much easier said than done.
No one else is going to do it!
We have to decide…are WE important?
If we don’t take care of our self, we won’t be around to take care of our loved one. We must decide. “Do we want to live or do we want to die?” It will happen if we don’t take care of our self.
YOU and I are important!
With that said, I need to go now, but I will be back.
Thank you for your patience as I add to my site and hopefully give you some more insight on sundownering and other elderly problems.
Do you need to talk to someone about sundowners syndrome, if so, please check this link.
I was listening to an audio tape earlier in the week and what I heard is this “We don’t have problems or issues, we do have experiences and opportunities.”
To your caregiving success.
I am still connected to God even though the day doesn’t always go my way.
Sundowners Syndrome
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